Is Your Girl Born To Cheat?
Sometimes women claim that they were driven into the arms of another man because their guy was a terrible, awful, horrible person, and they found comfort in the arms of someone who was sensitive and attentive. Bullcrap. That’s just a cop out. A cheater is a coward. At least, that’s my take on it.That said, this article isn’t about a woman who will cheat on you because you’re neglecting her or not attentive to her delicate needs. Rather, it’s about whether or not your girl will cheat on you regardless of how you treat her.
She cheated on her last guy to be with youAlthough it may have been exciting and made the sex all the more fantastic, if she was cheating on her last boyfriend to get between the sheets with you, guess what, my man? She’s probably going to taste the penis of another while you’re still with her. Although this isn’t necessarily set in stone, you have to admit that the minute things aren’t so perfect between you two, which is inevitably going to happen, she’ll start shopping around for M&Ms (Muscles & Money).
She cheated on all her boyfriendsShe cheated to be with you, but you discovered after the fact that she cheated on every boyfriend she ever had. So she’s a branch swinger — she won’t let go of one branch until she has a firm grasp on another. It’s frightening to realize that a guy can easily get her to take hold of his branch while she’s with you, and you know exactly what I’m alluding to.If she has to find someone else before she lets her boyfriends go, what makes you think that you’re the exception and not the rule? You have two choices: You can either stick around and wait for her to continue her swinging or you can tell her to find another branch now because you want to keep yours free of critters.
When a girl puts on a public persona that is anything but what she’s like in private, it’s because she’s faking it. She’s trying to portray an image that sends out a certain message to any man that crosses her path. In effect, she keeps the competition going strong and the likelihood of her spreading ’em for someone else is quite high.
She constantly accuses you of cheatingWhen anyone is constantly making accusations that hold no merit, they’re usually projecting what they are onto the other person. If she cheats and knows how easy it is to get away with it, guilt or paranoia might set in and she may, in turn, begin interrogating you if you show up 15 minutes late.
A cheater has to continually contend with the possibility that someone may one day betray them in the same manner. The momentary act of cheating is usually much easier than the mental aftermath. If she becomes consumed with the suspicion that you cheated, and there is no reason for her to do so, it’s time for you to question why.
She keeps making new guy friendsIt’s one thing for her to network for business purposes, but if she’s constantly befriending guys and going on “casual outings” with them, why is that?
Old guy friends she had before she met you are one thing, but going out socially with other guys breeds unnecessary temptation. Why would anyone purposely set themselves up for failure? And if you’re uncomfortable with it and tell her so, and she reacts in a volatile manner, making it clear that she will continue to befriend strange men, prepare for the inevitable.
She doesn’t think sex is sacredIn a world where sex is an effective tool in advertising and sexual favors are being exchanged in high school like they’re baseball cards, your girl may view sex as nothing more than an activity. And while that’s great in the sense that she’s not a prude, it’s sort of frightening that sex holds no sacred merit.
If she claims to want no one else but you and yet views sex as nothing more than something to do, then how valuable does she think it is to remain faithful to someone?
She doesn’t care if you’re aroundShe doesn’t long to see you. If you had a date and had to break it, she doesn’t think it’s a big deal and easily opts to go clubbing with her girlfriends. What’s worse, even if she hasn’t seen you for a week, she’ll opt to go out with friends rather than spend time alone with you.
If you’re never around, then you can easily be forgotten and therefore replaced. This isn’t a guarantee that she’s going to cheat, of course, but if you’re never around and she couldn’t care less, it’s obvious that someone else may be warming up your side of the bed. it may be too lateIf you plan to get serious with a girl, you need to figure out off the bat where she stands on the topic of monogamy. That’s not to say that you need to have a girl who is a one-man woman. If you want to be able to mess around and want a girl who’s open to the same thing, more power to you.
And if you thought your girl was one of the good ones and yet she has displayed any of the aforementioned signs, you may want to rethink your whole plan.